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Wednesday, September 26, 2012

And so it begins...


And so it begins.
The departing of summer.
Long, lazy days…sun kissed breezes…
Soft lush grass …
kaleidoscopic gardens under
canopies of full green trees …
locusts in the evening…
Relinquishing their place…
To brisk days…chilly nights…
The fading of grass and gardens…
giving way to the onslaught of falling leaves…
in brilliant orange and fiery red.

Monday, August 27, 2012

Vacation!


Vacation was good! The first 5 days were spent enjoying a beautiful cabin in the hills overlooking Table Rock Lake…with my wonderful husband, both of our fantastic kids, and our precious granddaughter!

 

We shopped, and ate…and ate and shopped! I’m pretty sure that I consumed my weight in fudge! Along the way we also went to the Butterfly Palace, Lambert’s (Home of the throwed rolls), and spent an afternoon on Table Rock Lake tubing.

 

After a bit of housekeeping we headed out Thursday to spend the night in Coffeyville, KS with relatives, then on home to Wichita on Friday morning!

 

We had a great week, and it ended all too quickly (as vacations do)!

 

On the up side, it looks like the 100 + temperatures have come to an end! Yea!! With highs in the upper 80’s and low 90’s, it will still be warm enough for the pool for a while…but not so sweltering that it takes our breath away!

 

While we were gone a couple of folks made the headlines…Phyllis Diller (sadly for passing away), and Prince Harry (for having a VERY good time in Vegas).

 

Phyllis Diller will be missed! Her hoarse laugh and fabulous humor are legendary! She is irreplaceable.

 

As for Prince Harry…what can one say? It was all fun and games until the photo’s hit the internet. I don’t know whether he is accompanied by “body guards” or “handlers”…but if so…this might be a good time to review what their role should be in protecting him from himself.

 

Be Well!

Thursday, July 19, 2012

Just another day...


The house was run down and shabby, its paint peeling and most of the screens torn, but the
backyard was a wonderland! Surrounded on both sides and across the back, by an old rusty, wire
fence. It’s sagging sections had borne the weight of every child in the neighborhood at one
time or another, either in scrambling over it or riding it like a horse. Huge old trees stood along the
perimeter like soldiers, their massive, lush green foliage protecting the yard and it’s occupants
from the hot summer sun. The three of us spent most of our days from sun up, to sun down
entertaining ourselves in that yard. Mom and her tranquilizers stayed in the house pretty much,
only venturing out a couple times a day to make sure no one was dead. 

I was 8 years old that summer, Tony was 6 and Sarah was 4. Tony and Sarah were tiny kids;
both had dark eyes and chestnut brown hair and they were often mistaken for twins. I was the
odd one, blond hair, blue eyes and a head taller than other kids my age. We had been digging
that day, no particular reason, it just seemed like a good day for making holes! Tony and I sat   
next to the swingset, digging with mom’s serving spoons. As usual, Sarah had to have her own
hole, which she was digging with a stick.

The boys next door, Steve and Gary, had been in and out of their house all morning, watching us dig, and after a while, they climbed over the fence and joined us, the youngest one carrying a bottle of Fresca. “What are you doing?” asked Steve. “Just diggin” said Tony, thrusting his spoon into the dirt. “Why?” asked Steve.
“Cause” said Tony. Steve picked up a stick, sat down, and began to dig. Gary sat down next to Sarah and offered her a drink of his soda.

Suddenly, Sarah began to gag. “Yech, she’s puking…” Tony said, twisting his face up in a nasty expression.
I got up and ran over to her. “Sarah, are you okay?” I asked, grabbing her shoulders and turning her to face me.  She was definitely not okay. Looking up at me, she wretched again, spewing vile, green stuff on
the ground between us. Beside her sat the soda that Gary had offered her. I grabbed the tail of my shirt and wiped her mouth, then picked up the bottle. The moment I picked up the soda, Gary slid backwards in the dirt. I sniffed the contents.

“You little creep! You peed in this bottle!” I screamed, flinging it to the ground. Gary was now grinning from ear to ear. “She’s so stupid she drank it!” he roared, throwing back his head in laughter. “She’s not stupid, she’s 4 years old you idiot!”  I screeched. At that point, Steve made a run for the fence, scrambling over it head first.
“Tell her you’re sorry you jerk!” I demanded. “I’m not telling her I’m sorry, I didn’t make her drink it!” he said, still grinning stupidly as he scrambled to his feet and began backing toward the fence. “I said tell her you’re sorry!”  “I won’t and you can’t make me.” He said. In one quick motion, he reached to the ground and picked up a hefty stick, which he now brandished wildly in the air.

“You’re gonna need a bigger stick jackass!” I said, moving towards him. He was almost to the fence by then.
Now or never, I thought.  Breaking into a run, I tackled him around the neck. He fell backward and I landed on top of him. “So, you want to go home huh? Not until you tell her you’re sorry!” I said, slapping him hard across the face.

“I’m not sorry! Get off me!” He yelled squirming like the worm that he was. “Tell her…NOW!” I yelled, my face almost against his. “SORRY” he yelled, starting to sob. I stood up, dragging him with me by the front of his shirt. “Now, get out of our yard creep.” I hissed, as I pushed him toward the fence. He turned and covered the two remaining steps to the fence with one leap, and as he hooked his foot in the wire, I jammed both of my palms against his backside and pushed with all my might. He flew through the air like a rocket, landing in a heap in his own yard.  “Don’t forget your pop!” yelled Tony, hurling the bottle over the fence behind him!

Just then, mom stepped out the back door, recoiling slightly against the muted sunlight like a vampire awakened before nightfall.  Standing on the crumbling cement backporch, rollers in her hair, cigarette hanging out the side of her mouth, she shielded her eyes with one hand, the other planted on her hip.

 “What the hell’s goin on out here…I can’t hardly hear the TV!” she said.
“Nothing mom” I said, as I returned to my digging.

“Steve and Gary just went home.”


On tomorrow...



Tomorrow…

Tomorrow is a scary place…
Where “if’s” and “maybe’s” live,
Faith and dreams a trail can blaze…
And hindsight always is…

But when tomorrow, is today…
The universe is dim,
There’s little more to do or say…
The outlook then is grim.

Until, of course, we realize…
That tomorrow comes again…
A thought that takes us by surprise…
And hope returns within.


Be Well!

Thursday, July 12, 2012

I'm baaaaaack!

After a lengthy absence from blogging...I am going to try to make a come back! Life has been busy...to say the least...and I have almost completely stopped writing. I miss it!

So many things have happened since I was here last time! In fact...too many to recap right now. I imagine that will come in bits and pieces as time goes by.

Right at the moment though, our son is on vacation in Vegas (yes I AM jealous)! And, we just moved our daughter and granddaughter into a new home. By "just moved" I mean...yesterday! They have been sharing a bedroom for a year now...as the master bedroom (in their previous house) happened to be upstairs and the nursery downstairs. Not really an optimal situation for a baby. During the transition between houses (about a week) they have been staying at home with us. It has been great fun! Of course...I would be ecstatic if both of our kids had remained at home forever! But...since that didn't happen...it is always awesome when either or both of them come home for any length of time!

The new house is really nice! I'm not certain of the square footage...but there are three bedrooms...three baths...living room, dining room/kitchen, full finished basement...with large family room and plenty of storage! It will be a wonderful home for them for many years!

It has been almost 16 years since we bought our last home...and things have really changed! I cannot believe all of the hoops that home buyers are required to jump through now! I suppose in the long run...the changes are for the best. Maybe more folks will be able to actually keep the homes they buy with all of the new regulations in place...but it sure seems like a giant pain in the ^#%&^!

The clock is ticking away and I need to wind this up and scoot across town to help with some things at the new house this evening!

Be well!


Wednesday, April 20, 2011

The past few months have passed with blinding speed. It never fails to amaze me how quickly life flies by.

The past month has been…trying. We spent several months anticipating the birth of a precious baby that my daughter was adopting…only to have the birth mother change her mind after he was born. It is hard to put into words how disappointed we all are and how hard it was to go through that. She is now back on the waiting list.

During the same time frame we experienced the death of a cousin who we were all close to. He had a massive heart attack and died in the cab of the truck that he drove for a living. He was only 53 years old.

Income tax time rolled around and we were kicked pretty hard by “good old Uncle Sam” due mostly to unemployment that my husband received during the last half of his year long job search. After three layoffs in 5 years…and a cut in pay each time a new job was found…paying taxes was difficult…but we got it done.

And currently, we are trying to figure out the best course of action in dealing with my mother. After my step father passed away, she found out that apparently he had signed a form on the wrong line when he retired. Consequently…she will not receive any of his pension… and her life has become a series of financial struggles. This combined with the fact that she is a hoarder (seriously)…has become a constant source of stress for everyone involved.

There are many days lately when we fear that the light at the end of the tunnel may truly be a train. However…it is only April…the year is young… (shudder). I know that things could have been much worse…and I have hope that the next 8 months will be better.

Be Well!

Monday, December 13, 2010

One down!

Monday is over...only four more days till the weekend! Yay! I fully intended to go Christmas shopping tonight, but after a hot bowl of chili and a lesson in using the new remote control...I decided to make fudge instead. I got an Eaglebrand fudge recipe online and tried it. I will let you know how it turns out!

Over the weekend we made a major purchase (major for us anyway). We were still watching an old fashioned 32" TV (not flat panel), so we broke down and bought one as a Christmas gift for each other. So far I absolutely LOVE it. I am not much of a TV person...I have a few favorite shows, but I would usually rather listen to music. And...with the attention span of a gnat...I rarely finish an entire show without wandering off for a bit. Anyway...I have discovered the music channels! More than a dozen channels with every kind of music that one can imagine! I totally love Jazz, Blues, Classic Rock and Christmas music of all kinds! It is awesome!

And...tonight...Closer and Men of a Certain Age are both on! Great night to be in out of the cold!

Be Well.

Thursday, December 09, 2010

Tis the season

As we plunge headlong into the season…it is easy to become stressed and frazzled with the hectic holiday schedules that we almost certainly will experience. Here are a few suggestions for destressing a bit and enjoying this wonderful time of year a bit more!

1. Set aside an evening each week to relax in front of the television and enjoy a few of your favorite Christmas movies! My personal favorites include “Elf”, It’s A Wonderful Life”, and Miracle on 34th Street”.

2. Take frequent breaks when shopping… for a soda or a cup of coffee and some people watching.

3. Decorate early so that the hard work that you put into lights, knick knacks, and the tree can be enjoyed as long as possible!

4. Cook ahead whenever possible for last minute parties, surprise guests, etc. Specialty breads, cakes, cookies and candy can be frozen/refrigerated, and ready to use with little notice.

5. Wrap gifts as you bring them home in order to avoid spending hours on Christmas Eve scrambling for enough paper, tape and tags to get the job done.

6. Buy and wrap a couple extra “gender neutral” gifts (candy, nuts, specialty coffees, etc.) for those unexpected folks who drop by with a gift for you.

Be Well!

Thursday, December 02, 2010

December 2, 2010

It’s been a long and odd year full of ups and downs and lots of uncertainty. I haven’t blogged in a very long time. Frankly, I simply lost the motivation for a while. I have been thinking about trying to get back in the saddle…and although I am here now…I make no promises about tomorrow.

Just to catch up a bit…after a year of unemployment…my husband was hired as a purchasing agent by a local company. The overall work was not what he was used to doing, but he was so glad to get the job that he has been working very hard to learn and adjust. Unfortunately…it looks as though the company may end up leaving the area in a few months…so we could find ourselves back among the ranks of the unemployed in the not too distant future.

Although we are not looking forward to going there again…we now know that we can survive…should we need to. During the year of unemployment, we came to terms with many things. Among those things was the possibility of losing our home. Toward the end, we began to prepare to sell. I am so thankful that we did not have to do that. However, the experience made me realize that there are worse things than living in an apartment again.

As I watch the news today, and read the scores of accounts of those who are still out of work…I do so with the realization that no one is immune. At any moment…any job can be over. In the blink of an eye…anyone can be on the brink of foreclosure…or homelessness. What a sad commentary.

Well…that’s a start. Perhaps my next post will be a bit more uplifting.

Be Well

Thursday, April 08, 2010

Sooo...we thought that everything was finally coming to some resolution. After a year of unemployment...my husband received two job offers in the same week. One was a higher salary than the other, so he turned down the low one and accepted the high one. They scheduled him for some "testing", which he took. We waited for three days on word about what his start date would be, and they finally called today to tell him that according to the "test"...his management style isn't what they were looking for after all. He has been a manager many times and was very successful.

So...not only do we not have the job that he accepted...but the other one has been filled. I feel so bad for him...he has done everything right...to no avail. This week just needs to end.

Be Well

Monday, March 22, 2010

Unemployment sucks....

We are currently four weeks from my husband being laid off for a full year. It has been a long year...full of ups and downs...sadness and joy. We have survived thus far on my $12.00 an hour job and his unemployment check. He has 460 (plus) applications out there and has had numerous interviews...but so far...no offers. He has been diligent and untiring in his search for a job...but it just isn't "our turn" yet I guess. We have begun to consider the possibility of selling the house if a job doesn't come soon...but it is an option that we hope never becomes necessary. Just in case it does though...we have begun to clean out closets, cabinets, and "clutter" in order to properly "stage" our home if a sale becomes our only option.



It is amazing what we have collected over the past few years! I boxed up 2 tall stacks of Eskimo Joe cups, tons of plastic silverware, disposable cups, and coffee cups of every description! I think my favorite though...was a box of assorted toys! Our kids have been grown for several years now...but I am an eternal child at heart. I have been tossing assorted playthings in a couple of dresser drawers in the guest room for years...and every once in a while...I pull something out and play with it! As I looked over my box of goodies, there were several kinds of bubble wands, a bubble gun, two potato guns, super balls, play doh, jacks, weebles, yo yo's, crayons, coloring books, water color paints, paint brushes, sidewalk chalk, giant ball point pins, whistles, bells, blow up toys and a couple of miniature chairs (that was the top layer).

After cleaning out closets, drawers, cabinets, and shelves...we met with the realtor and realized that there are MANY more things yet to be done in order to put the house on the market! The next few weeks will be very busy (provided mother nature cooperates and gives us halfway decent weather). The outside of the house needs painted, though we have not had any issues...we need to have the roof checked in order to insure that there is no need for replacement/repair, windows need washed and some screens repaired, and the final step (should we need to proceed) will be to put about half of our furniture in storage and take all personal items out of the house (except those necessary for day-to-day life).

Who knew selling a house would be so involved!

Hopefully, this will all be unnecessary and we will have simply done the best spring cleaning ever!!

Be well!!

Sunday, February 07, 2010

It's been a long five days! I've observed some things this past week:

1-Family tragedy pulls people together in unexpected ways.
2-Family tragedy pulls people apart in unexpected ways.
3-People are unpredictable...at best.
4-Ignorance is sometimes the best protection against bad behavior.
5-Your family might be Red Necks if (a) the grieving widower almost dumps his dead spouse on the floor as he lifts the side of the casket (during the viewing) in order to ascertain the number of poll bearers needed to carry her (b) current family feuds must be considered during seating arrangements in order to limit the number of "guests of honor" to only the one mentioned in the obituary.

Be Well!

Tuesday, February 02, 2010

Here I am...back to blogger! I so love writing...but it seems that life has been so busy for so long that I have all but abandoned it. I was looking back over poems and stories that I wrote last year...and I realized that I had forgotten how good it felt to write them. I know that I will most likely never see my work on a best seller list...or even on the midway at Barnes & Noble...and that's okay. But I need to write. It's what I do.

This week has been odd and short. It really began to unfold on Saturday evening as I sat in the kitchen with the cell phone in one hand and the wall phone in the other. My sister was informing my left ear that my mother was in the emergency room and was very ill...while my cousin informed my right ear that my aunt had just passed away. And just to keep things interesting...my husband stood directly in front of me pointing frantically at the ring finger on his left hand...which was naked. The doctor appeared suddenly in the emergency room, so my sister hung up promising to call me right back and my husband raced off down the stairs in search of the missing wedding ring. Obviously...my aunt remained dead. The ring was later found in the washing machine, mom was given IV fluids and antibiotics, and funeral arrangements are pending (for my aunt).

In the grand scheme of things...the past several days are just a tiny glitch on the radar. Life goes on and in ten years...no one will even remember the emergency room visit, the lost ring...or sadly...my aunt's laughter. Isn't life peculiar?!

Be Well!

Sunday, January 10, 2010

I haven't posted in a very long time. I doubt that anyone even reads this anymore...and that's okay. I just feel the need to write tonight and my thoughts really aren't Facebook fare. Circumstances beyond our control are beginning to take a toll on every aspect of our lives. Depression and tension are becoming commonplace. This has been a particularly rough weekend...one that I am glad to put behind us. Hopefully next week will be better.
Be Well!

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Change...again...

I feel it gently brush my cheek
Awakens me from fitful sleep.
Colors every passing thought
A heavy weight upon my heart.

Familiar things now teetering
Nothing lasts…so it would seem.
In this world of upside down
Temperate things cannot be found.

My soul accepts its time and space
Life proceeds with peace and grace.
Without a sideways glance…
Change begins its ugly dance.

And so I look inside myself
And pull from dark and dusty shelf,
Some things to get me through these days…
Of worry, fear, and grey malaise.

Copyright©2009 by VSchoonover. All rights reserved

Monday, March 09, 2009

Hmmm...

Well...things happen for a reason. I was really down about not bringing home a puppy that I fell in love with this weekend. In doing some research...I find that this breed is extremely hard to house break and hates other animals...I'm glad I didn't get it!

Be Well

Sunday, March 08, 2009

They say it's my birthday....

Today is my birthday...and it has been wonderful!! I am so blessed to have the most wonderful, special, husband and kids on earth! We spent the afternoon together...which I absolutely loved! My favorite times in the world are those spent my family...those are the times that I treasure!

We started the day with church, and in fact, took a step this morning that is long overdue. We joined the church after attending for more than three years. I think it was a good move...but for some reason it has been a difficult thing for me to do. I like the church very much, and do feel comfortable there...so I really have no idea what my problem has been.

After church we went to lunch at Texas Roadhouse. The food was wonderful and the atmosphere was fun and upbeat!! Then, on to Chas's for cake, presents and NASCAR. Unfortunately, no one told Jimmie Johnson that it was my birthday...so he didn't make that special effort to win the race! Oh well, maybe next week.

I spent all day Saturday and most of Saturday night with an infected gum, which drained continually and hurt like the dickens...it seems to have finally begun to heal now. The pain is gone and the infection and drainage have subsided.

The only down side of the weekend was saying no to something that I really wanted...in order to do the practical, responsible thing...as usual. All things being what they are...car repairs, dental work, and house painting in the offing...not to mention job uncertainty during the days ahead...it just isn't a good time to spend $300 on a cuddly pal. Sometimes...following your brain instead of your heart sucks. But...as a wise person once said..."It's what you do that defines you." So...here's to...definition.

The coming week has already shaped up to be long, and probably awful...but hopefully it will pass quickly. Council on Tuesday promises to be long and intense due to codification issues and impending elections, and the absence of several co-workers...some all week and some for a portion of it will ensure added workload and stress. That's life...this too shall pass.

Be Well

Sunday, March 01, 2009

It's been a long, miserable weekend! After having a tooth pulled on Friday, I spent all night Friday night, all day Saturday and all night Saturday night in throbbing pain. The pain seems to have finally let up...for the most part...but the swelling has set in with a vengence. I look like a hampster with a jaw full of food now. I will be glad to be on the other side of this mess.

Meanwhile, I have Park and Rec Board meeting tomorrow night, so I really hope I look normal by then. My co workers were peeved that I was off on Friday...so on top of the whole tooth thing itself...I'm sure Monday will not be fun.

Sugar (our grandog) had an awful bout with pancreatitis on Friday night and I think we came very close to losing her. She is the sweetest Beagle you'll ever meet! The vet let her come home early and she seems to be doing well now...just worn out completely.

On the upside, the tempuratures next week are supposed to be 60's and 70's! I can't wait!!! I am soooo ready for spring!!

My wonderful husband has gone to the grocery store after taking excellent care of an ailing, weinie wife all weekend. He is awesome! The race starts in a couple hours...but the way this weekend has gone...the 48 car will probably bite the dust early.

Here's hoping for a better week coming up!

Be Well

Friday, February 27, 2009

This day sucked. I went to bed with a little discomfort in my gum and awoke at 4:30 a.m. with a toothache that led to having the tooth pulled by noon. The dentist was very good...and I felt no pain during the extraction...but now...IT HURTS! I go back in two weeks to begin the process of figuring out a partial of some sort. Holy cow!

Be Well

Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Great lunch hour...

Half of a sandwich, then I changed into shorts, t-shirt and tennis shoes and took a mile walk! The wind was warm on my skin...the sun brightened my soul! Now, THAT is a fabulous lunch hour! Gotta get back to work!!

Be Well!